This is the greatest enemy of education, almost every parents are doing! Sohu – dachiyouxiang

This is the greatest enemy of education, almost every parents are doing! I was the chairman of Sohu – the mother is the local well-known entrepreneur, educator, seventy years old, although the back seat, and scientists son settled in the United States, to do a lifetime of "revolution" on her retirement day did not idle, still adhere to the position to play the heat in love. The return home to visit relatives, the local government specifically invited the old lady to the local thousands of teachers and students, parents of a free education report. Liu was affectionately call her mother fifteen years ago is the "Chinese first ten outstanding mother", has not only a lot of successful experience in child rearing methods, plus in recent years to settle abroad, by the advanced ideological parenting baptism and continuous learning, many more distinct concepts. Will she pointed out a lot of family education for baby taboo, she called for millions of parents and educational circles of friends, who must overcome this problem, for the next generation of positive energy transfer. She said that there is a kind of thing in this world is always losing money, that is to lose his temper. 01, is the biggest enemy of temper education education of children is so angry is the biggest enemy of education, temper more worse, the effect of education. Because: 1, a temper, the harm of the seven points. Educational experts point out that poverty does not lead to failure in education, but that mental ill – will necessarily creates a problem – child. Let the child live in the spirit of abuse, just as she walked in chains. A lot of parents to the child’s willful, disobedient, mischievous blame on the child, in fact, every child behind the problem, there must be a problem parents, this is the law of iron. It is inevitable that there will be a spiritual child who, after suffering mental abuse, will move toward a negative, pessimistic world. 2, bad temper will inherit. What kind of environment, what kind of baby. Love temper parents, the baby easy education rebellious, sensitive, suspicious and love for a fragile heart. At the same time, when the child grows up, his temper is very hot and harsh. Severe allergic neuropathy is likely to occur, tend to their turn for parents, grandparents will inherit the bad temper, "gates of fire, adverse impacts to fish, and the child is our bad temper the hardest hit. As Montessori said: every character defect is caused by the tragedy of childhood. 3, bad temper is the strongest weapon of parent-child relationship. Bad temper, so that children do not dare to close, do not dare to open your heart with you, always in fear of fear, no sense of security, there will be a variety of problems in the growth. There are many such examples: parents being larger, more unruly children; parents more flustered, children more difficult; parents being upgraded, child’s bad behavior followed grew. I remember my neighbor has a little boy, a very naughty, then my father actually tied him up with ropes, but this child has not been playing clothes, Bianguai, and only to the third grade, the son is completely not to go to school. Parents of ideological education into a strange inertia, he believes that the children do not use the roar, you have to scold, scold the strength of the相关的主题文章: